Realityworks Star: Volume 1 Issue 6 June 2007
Issue Date: June 13, 2007

Cicadas, Mosquitos and Other June Bugs

Mmmm... YummyDid you notice that as soon as the mild temps and gentle breezes come around, the insects come around, too? But like we always say (since about an hour ago) if you can’t beat ‘em... eat ‘em! That’s what they’re doing in the Midwest and the reports are that cicadas taste like chicken. Of course, if you wanted to taste some chicken you might just eat, well, chicken. If you like six legs and two wings of extra crispy in your bucket, cicadas might be the delicacy for you. As for us, if we see a cicada, we’re going to make like the Beatles and let it be. All this is a welcome switch as we're used to the mosquitos snacking on us.

So what’s buggin’ you lately? Do teen pregnancy and child abuse still feel like dire problems in need of quality long-term prevention efforts? Think of how ants are small and yet capable of mighty things when they work together. Do you have moments of discouragement with the young people you’re trying to help make healthy decisions? Think of the lowly worm in the cocoon that produces a beautiful butterfly. Do you need help with funding or does your community need to know more about how your program is making a difference in their lives? Maybe you just need to get some buzz with local media. These are the issues that keep us coming to work every day. How can we help you accomplish your goals? Let’s keep talking to each other so we can figure it out.

Special note to our teacher-subscribers... if you are on your way out the door for summer vacation, enjoy your time off! Check out the Product Support tip ‘o the month if you’re storing Babies until later in the year and we’ll see you in September!

 

Michigan Program Touches 600
Students Each Year

  It's Baby
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Laurie Benzing is putting her Babies away for summer after a very successful school year. She is a community specialist for Planned Parenthood of Mid-Michigan in Jackson (near Lansing). Laurie takes the RealCare® Parenting Program to 12 schools in the county, spending five teaching days with students and going over their simulation results. In 2006, the program reached 600 area students.

“I just love them,” she says. “But I’m so ready to put them away now.”

She’ll store all of them away except her demo Baby, which she keeps with her all the time. “Everywhere I go it seems like people are always asking me about them.”

Her program begins with a day to discuss the economic, legal and emotional consequences of being pregnant, and time to talk about relationships in general. This leads into the simulation weekend. Upon return, local child abuse prevention and neglect professionals join Laurie to go over the simulation results with students.

Baby and "Daddy"  
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“We talk about the feelings they experienced,” says Laurie. “This is when I can look at the report and say, ‘It looks like you struggled with supporting the head’ or whatever it might be. They get a child abuse lesson while I’m going over their scores. We’ve even talked about legal charges and planning a funeral.”

Other lessons, like the cost of babysitting, are incorporated into the parenting simulation. Students are allowed up to six hours of quiet time, but Laurie will give them a bill for what it would have cost them to have that time to themselves by hiring a babysitter.

After the simulation debriefing, another day is spent on what Laurie calls “What are we going to do now?” This is where they talk about abstinence and contraceptives.

“We teach both because we want to reach everybody,” says Laurie. “Statistically we know that some kids are going to choose to have sex. Planned Parenthood’s whole message is about pregnancy prevention. We believe the more education we can provide, the better the prevention effort.”

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Laurie does the programming of the Babies for each simulation. She maintains the “fleet” of simulators and even washes the clothing between uses. Every weekend from October to May, a class is having a Baby simulation. All students in the class have the experience at the same time, to build a sense of camaraderie and to make the best use of the teacher’s time. And everyone comes back exhausted at the same time, she adds.

“They all get different things out of it. Some really bond with the Baby. And I tell them that’s okay, because when you are ready—and I stress that—you will do well. Some will tell me they cried and I tell them that’s okay... parents do that, too. But it’s good that this was a practice run. This shows that you don’t want this at this time in your life.

“We even had a teen father who gained new respect for the mother of his child once he experienced what she had to go through in taking care of the baby.”

Planned Parenthood of Mid-Michigan received a $10,000 grant from a community foundation three years ago to pay for more simulators and related products for the county’s programs.

“It certainly helps that there is research on the effectiveness. This helps us out,” says Laurie. “But we get more support because the schools want it. They ask for it.”

 

Dad Piles on the Baby Homework
Elizabeth Campbell’s Story

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“Gretchen was a new student who came to our district mid-year. Since Family and Consumer Sciences (FACS) is a requirement for graduation, she was scheduled into my class. As I showed her the course of study requirements, her eyes widened with concern. She had noticed that all students are required to take home an infant simulator for one weekend.

I didn’t know it, but Gretchen, age 16, was the mother of an eight-month-old baby.  I first discovered this when I received a phone call from her dad. Gretchen lived at home with her father, who traveled during the week as part of his job. The baby was cared for by a neighbor while Gretchen was at school. After hearing of her situation, I expected that Dad would ask me to provide an alternate assignment for Gretchen. His request surprised me. Gretchen’s father asked me to make her take the Baby for the usual weekend and to set it on its hardest possible setting. Dad explained that he wanted his daughter to know that if she became pregnant again that having two babies would be at least twice the challenge of having one.

Gretchen’s reaction was, “I can’t believe he’s making me do this.” After the very long weekend, Gretchen returned with her Baby in hand and the look on her face was one of defeat. She remarked to me that the lesson her father was trying to instill in her had, indeed, worked. She said that she couldn’t have imagined how difficult it was to divide her attention between two infants, and she was certain that she wouldn’t put herself in that position.

Another lesson learned!”

-- Elizabeth Campbell, FACS teacher, Ligonier Valley High School, Ligonier, Pennsylvania.

Driving Miss Baby?
Mary Craig’s Story
: Van Driver Gets Crash Course in Comforting.

“I work at an education agency and we proudly loan our Babies to teachers in our area.  The Babies travel in comfort – strapped in a zipped case, wrapped in a soft blanket – with all their accessories. The cases are transported from building to building in a van.
 
One morning in February I answered the phone. The voice on the other end of the line sounded anxious and flustered.

“How do I stop it from crying?” he said. “What?” I queried.

“The Baby. It won’t stop crying!” he replied.
 
I couldn’t stop myself.  I asked, “Did you try holding and comforting the infant? Changing the diaper? Giving it a bottle?”
 
After a good laugh, the step-by-step directions for quieting the Baby were explained to the driver, the process was completed, and the van continued on its way.
 
I must note: At the next staff meeting, amid collegial laughter, we offered the van driver suggestions on handling crying babies.”

-- Mary Craig, Support Services Supervisor, Green Valley Area Education Agency, Creston, Iowa.

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Product Support with a Smile

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In addition to the one-on-one help, we share their product support tips every month right here by the clover (because we’re lucky to have such great product support technicians, of course).

Product support hours are Monday through Thursday 7 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Fridays 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. Central Standard Time. Call 800.830.1416 or 715.830.2040.

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Let Baby Rest Happy and Healthy
How to store your Babies properly while they’re not in use.

It’s that time of year when many program leaders put their Babies away and ask us the best way to store them. When Babies take their summer sabbatical, be sure to do the following:

  • If your Babies use regular batteries, be sure they are removed. Never store batteries in Baby or the control unit because they can drain and run the risk of leaking battery acid into the battery compartments. However, if you are using RealCare® II-plus Babies, DO NOT remove the rechargeable battery pack from the Babies. Leave them unplugged from the charger and the batteries will gradually drain safely.
  • Place your Babies in a plastic bag to protect their vinyl complexion.
  • Store Babies in a cool dry room.

Storing Babies safely is as easy as 1-2-3! But most importantly, be sure to tuck Babies in and wish them a good summer rest. And when you are ready for Baby to awake, be sure to recharge fully (or insert new batteries) before using again.

Look for another stress-busting, life-simplifying, soul-cleansing product support tip next month. Product support hours are Monday through Thursday 7 a.m. to 6 p.m. and Friday 7 a.m. to 5 p.m. Central Standard Time. Call 800.830.1416 or 715.830.2040.

 

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Hey Weezie! The answer was The Jeffersons!

Last month we asked, “Who famously was “movin’ on up to a deluxe apartment in the sky”? It was fast-talking George Jefferson, the fast-talking dry cleaner played by Sherman Hemsley in the sitcom The Jeffersons, a popular spinoff of All in the Family (which explained his Archie Bunker-ish demeanor).

“Movin’ on up” was the show’s theme song. Other cast members included his long-suffering wife, Louise “Weezie”, played by Isabel Sanford. You may also recall their sassy maid Florence, played by Marla Gibbs.

Congratulations, winners! The first correct answer came from Michelle Hubbard, who teaches Family and Consumer Sciences at Rio Hondo High School, in Rio Hondo, Texas. Other winners hailed from Missouri, Indiana, Massachusetts, Wisconsin and Colorado. We’ve concluded that The Jeffersons was a big hit in Texas and Missouri as those states sent in the majority of correct answers. Fellow TV junkies unite! (Have you noticed how Realityworks is stuck on TV and movies from the 70s-80s?
 

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